I have problems with the movie because there is a fundamental flaw in the filmmaking or in the writing. As I said in my first post on this thread, the relationship seemed rushed and not fleshed out enough (do NOT go anywhere with that statement :p ).
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Regardless of the moviemaking, I am continually disappointed in the inability of so many people to understand the pain of unrequited love, which is the basis of the story. It's a human emotion felt by both men and women. It cross all borders, boundaries, social classes, and sexual orientation. Of course, the persecution of the lead couple because of what they feel for one another is equally painful and deadly. What could hurt more than that....being killed for what you are. For those who love the political threads, consider it akin to being killed for your beliefs because others think you are wrong.
FPW, I think you are correct in your assessment regarding identification. But because the story is about more than just sex, I still think it's too bad more folks can't get beyond the sex and look at the humanity.
Reading is freedom.
The mind soars, no earthly cares,
no limitations.
A Maggers Haiku, 2005
Years ago my mother used to say to me... "In this world, Elwood, you can be oh so smart or oh so pleasant."
Well, for years I was smart.
I recommend pleasant.
You may quote me.
Elwood P. Dowd